ezra somatics retreats

deeply held somatic retreats for people ready come home to pleasure, desire, and their own bodies.

i created these retreats because i know what it’s like when parts of you are running the show.

many of us aren’t making relational choices from our present-day selves. we’re being led by parts that learned how to survive.

when relationships, desire, and pleasure are shaped by old survival patterns rather than present-day choice. when the body feels disconnected, or intimacy feels confusing, overwhelming, or just out of reach.

ezra somatics retreats offer a structured, deeply held space to rebuild trust with the body through somatic work, parts-based integration, and gentle pleasure-informed practices. the intention is not to fix or force anything; but to support safety, presence, and a more honest way of relating.

choose the retreat that's for you

for queer folks of every gender, recently out, questioning, or long sure, reconnecting with identity, desire, and the body, in a room where you never have to explain yourself.

NEXT: NEW YORK | SEPTEMBER 24-28

queer retreats


for partners ready to rebuild desire and intimacy through tantric and somatic practice, breath, touch, and presence, without either of you performing to stay connected.

NEXT: NEW YORK | OCTOBER 9-12

couple retreats

retreat pillars

daily somatic & pleasure practice

slow, guided sessions led by jordana, a certified somatic sexologist and tantra-informed facilitator. pleasure used to build safety, not to perform.

a small, well-held container

intimate by design. a space where you're met without needing to perform, explain, or hold it all together. who you're with becomes part of the medicine.

held long after you leave

beautiful spaces, nourishing food, and four weeks of group integration afterward, so the work settles into your real life and relationships.

about the facilitator

jordana ezra is a certified somatic sexologist and tantra-informed facilitator, ten years in, host of sell-out embodied retreats and immersive group spaces.

jordana is gay, and her own coming out was as much somatic as it was personal: learning to stay present in her body, trust sensation, and stop overriding herself to feel chosen. that lived understanding shapes how every retreat is held and paced.

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testimonials

"absolutely life changing. going in i was closed off and terrified; leaving I felt taller, confident, and comfortable being my true queer self."

geri · past participant

"they hold such a warm and welcoming space where any part of you can come forward to be witnessed. working with jordy changed my life."

nancy · past client

"it changed me viscerally. i found safety in sisterhood for the first time in my life, something i'd longed for since childhood."

kristen · past participant

application process

these retreats are small and carefully held, so every place is by application. no instant checkout, on purpose. it's how we keep each room safe, intimate, and right for everyone in it.

A short application so we understand what you're looking for.

1

tell us about you


jordana personally follows up to set up a chat. no pressure, no hard sell.

2

we'll reach out


a real conversation

3

a call to make sure it's the right fit, both ways, before anything is confirmed.


if it's a yes on both sides, we hold your spot and begin your pre-retreat onboarding.

4

your place is held