BIG PUSSY ENERGY

BIG PUSSY ENERGY

Awaken your pussy & thrive in your queerness 


A 4 day trauma informed luxury retreat for queer humans to create a devotional relationship with their pussy and embody a new depth of pleasure and queer celebration based on self trust, communication and worship. 


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hello queers,

“I FOUND SAFETY IN SISTERHOOD FOR THE FIRST TIME IN MY LIFe”I

kristen (past retreat participant)

OUND SAFETY IN SISTERHOOD FOR THE FIRST TIME IN MY

I will start by saying that this retreat is not for everyone

It’s firstly for queer bodies, this retreat is all about PUSSY. So as you make your way through this page - I ask you to take it slow, let these words sink in, feel your pussy and make a decision from that place. This is a level 2 retreat AND is an erotic exploration with self and others. There will be so much space to unravel somatically and clear blocks that are potentially stopping you from thriving in your queerness. having already done some somatic work where you can responsibly hold yourself (knowing when to lean in or out) is vital for this retreat. In saying that WHEREVER you are on your queer journey is perfect (baby gays, seasoned lesbians, curious, bicurious, experimenting)… mhhm - yes this is your home bb and I can’t wait to welcome you into the space.

ps. this little background video is from the first bpe - we made our own signature pussy cocktails & literally melted into lifelong friendships

We are meant to stand in reverence of pussy—to honor its subtle cues, trust its gentle pulses, and surrender to the wild, untamed waves of pleasure and ecstasy it holds. Pussy is a source of deep wisdom, offering a sensational yes and no that guides us back to our truth.

But somewhere along the way, we were taught to give this power away. We were conditioned to tame ourselves, to mistrust our bodies, and to silence the voice of pussy.

We’ve been told to fear pussy—to see it as something shameful, hidden, or even disgusting. Through this conditioning, we’ve disconnected from pussy, ignoring its wisdom and rejecting its power.

When pussy is ignored—whether through being penetrated too soon, saying yes to sex when it’s really a no, or even self-pleasuring without true consent—it stops trusting us. To protect itself, pussy creates safety mechanisms that demand our attention. These often show up as vaginal pain, genital numbness, or deep sexual shame.

But you are not these mechanisms. Pussy is not something to fear. Instead, let’s reclaim our connection to pussy and embrace its unique experience. By listening deeply to pussy’s needs and desires, we can rebuild trust, rediscover safety, and thrive in the fullness of our pleasure 

pic of a guided void journey on the first night of BPE - Melbourne 2025

WELCOME TO BIG PUSSY ENERGY

Your pussy is a superpower

And having a devotional relationship with yours where you feel genuine awe, reverence and love is actually THE TECHNIQUE to heart melty queer sex. Of course it never hurts learning eating, fingering and pleasuring techniques (dw we will be diving into that) however how you personally feel about pussy (yours and in general) directly impacts your sexual functioning. 

Internalised shame can leave us feeling frozen, unsure, or disconnected when exploring someone else’s pleasure. No fancy techniques will solve this, and when internalised homophobia is added to the mix, it’s a perfect storm for sexual shutdown.

This all stems from a culture that teaches us to fear our own pleasure. Living in a world that glorifies heteronormativity only deepens this wound, leaving us questioning our queerness and enforcing shame as a way to “stay safe” and belong.

But here’s the truth: these constructs were never yours to carry. They were imposed, and they can be unraveled. Reclaiming your relationship with pleasure isn’t just healing it’s revolutionary. It’s the key to expansive, empowered, and wildly thriving queer experiences.

To feel scared of embracing your desires, hesitant to own your wild, untamed sexuality, or unsure how to say this is me through your boundaries? Babe, that’s so real. You’re not broken. You’re human.

But listen up: The most badass, life-changing journey we take as queer babes is to say a raw, unapologetic fuck yes to the messy, magnificent truth of who we are. To reclaim the wild power that’s always been ours. And to keep holding back? Babe, that’s like cutting yourself off from the juiciest, most electric parts of life! and you are way too incredible for that.

Now imagine this: A life where you feel alive in your queerness, so in love with your body that you want to bow down to it, and rooted in the unshakable knowing that you are worthy of nothing less than total worship. A life where your pleasure isn’t just allowed - it’s celebrated. A life where your boundaries are gospel.

That life? It’s already here. It’s throbbing, it’s waiting, and it’s aching for you to just say yes

You want to have wild, deep, loving queer sex while feeling completely safe and aligned with your pussy’s boundaries.

But what does that even mean? How do you let go and surrender to pleasure while also holding yourself and listening to your pussy’s yes, no, and maybe?

Maybe you’ve been told that to truly worship pussy, you need to ooze confidence, look like the ultimate queer dream, and have an impressive “pussy count.” Like there’s some queer checklist you need to tick off before you’re worthy.

Or maybe you’ve been bombarded with ideas about how you should orgasm or where you’re supposed to feel certain things. You’ve tried the courses, the masterclasses, the retreats - all in the hope of unlocking deeper pleasure or becoming the ultimate pussy worshipper.

But here’s the thing: None of that matters if you’re not connected to your own truth. It’s not about being “good enough” or hitting some arbitrary standard. It’s about learning to listen to your body, trust its wisdom, and honour the full spectrum of your unique desires.

You want to actually be capable of receiving the worship your pussy wants and to confidently worship someone else’s

  • You crave a deep, unshakable confidence in your queerness - to know, without a doubt, that you are more than enough just as you are.

  • You long to have the courage to speak your desires boldly and unapologetically. To ask for exactly what your body craves and feel worthy of receiving it. (“I’m not ready for you to penetrate me yet.” “I love it when you do this…” “Can we slow things down?”)

  • You yearn for a connection to the queer community that feels nourishing, aligned, and dripping in pleasure, a space where you can belong fully and thrive unapologetically.

  • And most of all, you are ready to fall wildly in love with your body (AND PUSSY) like never before. To give yourself permission to embrace the fullness of queer pleasure and love

SO WHAT MAKES THIS RETREAT SO DIFFERENT? LET ME EXPLAIN


Learning to create a deeply devotional relationship with your pussy, loving how it looks, smells, feels, and embodying this as a way of life; has the power to completely transform your queerness. It changes how worthy you feel of receiving pleasure and how confident you are when worshiping another pussy.

This kind of devotion invites you to meet yourself in entirely new ways, both in and out of the bedroom. Ways that are grounded, centered, and deeply honoring of your body’s boundaries and desires.

The truth is, we should have been taught this from the beginning. But instead, consent culture is something we stumble across, if we’re curious enough to dig for it, or lucky enough to have parents who valued it. For years, I faked orgasms, had no idea what I wanted or liked sexually, and definitely didn’t know how to communicate any of it.

Over the past decade, I’ve immersed myself in study, taken courses, and worked with hundreds of queer-bodied humans. What I know for certain is this: it’s incredibly hard to find spaces that truly equip you with the holistic somatic and emotional mastery needed to feel safe enough to experience the kind of pleasure your pussy and soul are craving.

IMAGE FROM A CEREMONY AT THE LAST RETREAT * USED WITH CONSENT


BIG PUSSY ENERGY IS THAT PLACE

At this luxury retreat, you’ll step into a world where transformation meets pure opulence. Surrounded by lush beauty and held in a space designed for devotion, you’ll feel your worthiness reflected in every detail. This isn’t just a retreat; it’s a reclamation of your right to live boldly, to experience pleasure deeply, and to bask in the richness of life that celebrates you.

You’ll learn advanced, trauma-informed somatic skills rooted in tantra and crafted specifically to help you unlock the mysteries of your body, your pussy, and your unique, delicious queerness. Here, you’ll expand your pleasure potential in ways you never thought possible.

You’ll dive deep into the sacred art of pussy worship and pleasure anatomy, not just to understand how arousal works but to embody it fully. You’ll leave knowing how to confidently navigate the waters of queer pleasure and orgasm like the radiant, unapologetic being you are.

And you’ll discover a new kind of strength; one anchored in vulnerability, open-hearted communication, and a fierce devotion to your desires. Imagine transparently sharing your pussy’s deepest truths, feeling seen, held, and celebrated by a community of queer hunnies who are walking this path right beside you.

This retreat is a love letter to the version of you who deserved this knowledge all along. It’s the combination of everything we should have been taught growing up but never were the tools, the practices, the permission to live a thriving, luscious, orgasmic queer life.

Because, babe, we weren’t taught that we can have it all: to adore our pussy, confidently devour someone else’s, and unapologetically thrive in our queerness.

The teachings in BIG PUSSY ENERGY are what your pussy has been whispering, screaming, aching for your whole life. And now, instead of finding scraps of wisdom here and there, it’s all here—in one luxurious, heart-opening, pussy-throbbing experience designed to put your pleasure front and center, where it always belonged.

what people say about working with Jordy

“There was so much internalized shame surrounding my queer identity and Jordy helped me sift through it to rediscover the bounty of my authenticity. Before working with Jordy, my relationship to my pussy was numb. It was a blank space that felt closed off and inaccessible. Picture an old abandoned mansion covered in dust and old sheets; no light, it was cold, and empty. After working with Jordy, my pussy felt alive and nourished; the windows were opened, there was a fresh breeze, fuckin flowers were everywhere. It was a night and day difference! I feel so much more connected to my pussy energy and can feel her guiding me through my day

I would recommend this kind of work to anyone who is curious about who they are beneath the cis-het conditioning of our society. Whether you’re a baby gay, questioning your identity, or just looking to develop a deeper relationship with yourself and your body, Jordy is the person to trust with your journey! They hold such a warm and welcoming space where any part of you can come forward to be witnessed in all its glory, messy parts too. Working with Jordy changed my life and because of the work we did together, I’m able to live life as my full queer self and discover the beauty that comes with that!”

Nancy, past 1:1 client

big pussy energy

big pussy energy

BPE - MELBOURNE 2025

REAL TALK 

This kind of work isn’t a one-and-done thing. You don’t just pop a jade egg in and magically get all the sensations back. Babe, this is about making a commitment- a devotional, unapologetic fuck yes to your pussy and your queerness. Think of this retreat as the start of your gym membership… but for pleasure, pussy, and fully owning your radiant, queer self. Because expanding your pleasure capacity, honoring your pussy, and stepping into the art of pussy worship? That’s not a quick fix. It’s a whole damn lifestyle, boo.

Someday isn’t coming. This is the pussy and queerness journey. Learning to choose your pussy- moment to moment starts now! Not when you’ve got the perfect partner, the dream job, or anything else you think you need to “be ready.” The time to start listening to, honoring, and loving the most powerful, sacred parts of your body, queerness, and sexuality is right now.

I get it- you’re tired of sex that hurts. You’re over feeling nervous in front of someone else’s pussy. You just want to feel okay...no, amazing, about your own pussy and queer identity. You want to lie back and have someone devour you for hours without spiraling into your head. You want to wake up stoked that you’re queer, grateful to live in the fullness of your truth. You want to look at pussy with so much awe and devotion that worshiping them becomes second nature.

And THAT, babe, is exactly why BIG PUSSY ENERGY is for youuuu

what people say about working with Jordy


The most positive outcome of participating in the retreat & working with jordy was finally landing in my body and finding true safety. I now feel safe and trust my self to be in my body to the point I can actually connect with my pussy. Before going my Relationship with my pussy was non-existent; I was ashamed and embarrassed by her. I neglected my pussy and she was numb. I couldn’t even say the word pussy without cringing and feeling sinful. After doing this work my relationship with my pussy and pleasure has become a devotional, connected and sensual one. I show up with deep reverence, curiosity and appreciation for my pussy and I take the time to worship her and all that she is. I would recommend this kind of work to anyone that is experiencing numbness, shame, embarrassment, disembodiment or wanting to connect more deeply with their pussy

- Martina, past retreat participant & 1:1 client

Before bpe

  • You feel deeply disconnected from your body and weighed down by shame around your sexuality and desires.

  • You’ve never truly felt safe or celebrated in your queerness, often questioning if you’re “enough.”

  • You’re navigating a mix of curiosity and fear when it comes to your pussy and pleasure—wanting to explore but unsure where to even begin.

  • You feel stuck in patterns of self-doubt, faking orgasms, or avoiding intimacy altogether because it feels overwhelming or unsafe.

  • You crave connection with other queer people but fear you won’t belong or that you’re not “queer enough.”

  • You long to feel confident in your body, in sex, and in your ability to deeply connect with others, but feel blocked by past experiences, internalised shame, or cultural conditioning.

after bpe

  • Deeply connected to your body, grounded in your queerness, and filled with unshakable confidence in your unique expression.

  • In love with your pussy, adoring how it looks, feels, and responds, knowing it holds infinite wisdom and pleasure.

  • Empowered to own your desires, communicate your boundaries, and unapologetically ask for what you want in and out of the bedroom.

  • Free of shame and fully at home in your sexuality, knowing you’re not “too much” or “not enough”—you’re just right.

  • Confident worshiping pussy, with an intuitive understanding of pleasure, arousal, and how to connect deeply with another.

  • Safe and open in your body, ready to receive and enjoy pleasure fully without guilt, fear, or second-guessing.

  • Part of a supportive queer community where you feel seen, celebrated, and deeply connected.

  • Excited to wake up every day as your vibrant queer self, knowing you’re worthy of love, pleasure, and everything delicious this life has to offer.

If the “before” section has you feeling a little called out- breathe, babe. This isn’t about being some untouchable master of pussy love or queer sex who’s always confident and knows exactly what to do. Honestly? That doesn’t even exist.

This is about learning how to navigate the messy, beautiful wobbles with tenderness and compassion. It’s about being human - giving yourself permission to feel unsure, to stumble, and then choosing to meet yourself with love anyway.

It’s about showing up for your pussy, your pleasure, and your queerness, even when it’s uncomfortable or scary. Over and over again. Because that’s what builds the kind of confidence and self-love that can’t be shaken.

You don’t have to be perfect, babe. You just have to be willing to take the first step and keep choosing yourself

what people say about working with Jordy

“It was an instant yes from my body when I heard about bpe.my mind got in the way for a while and doubted my worthiness. Things like "I could never spend that much money on myself" crossed my mind. Deciding to invest in myself was the best decision I've ever made. It changed me viscerally. I found safety in sisterhood for the first time in my life. something i have longed for since childhood. This was the best gift I have ever given to myself and I'm beyond grateful to have been a part of it. The love from that weekend radiated into my day to day life. My best friend heard a change in my voice. She said I sound lighter and free. I came home from the retreat feeling like I was bursting with light and love. witnessing other women on their journey was just as important as my own. I saw myself in each and every one of them. The bond that we all formed over that four day period has forever transformed the way I see myself and other people. slowing down, being more present and connected to myself has gifted me a lot. I found pleasure in life. I connected to my pussy for the first time in years and I don't deny her desires anymore. I no longer feel the need to suppress her needs for the wants of others. I had not let my partner go down on me for months and even before that, I was hesitant and quite uncomfortable. Those insecurities, fears and guards have been dismantled and I'm free to let myself feel pleasure”

- kristen, past retreat participant

meet jordy 

Hi, I’m Jordana Ezra, a certified somatic sexologist passionate about helping queer babes feel deeply connected to their bodies and queerness.

I know what it’s like to carry shame around your pussy, your desires, and your right to take up space as a queer person. For years, I struggled to feel “enough,” faking confidence while feeling so disconnected inside.

That’s why I’ve devoted my life to creating safe, celebratory spaces where you can unravel that shame, reconnect with your body, and discover the pleasure and freedom you’ve always deserved.

Through trauma-informed somatic practices, tantra, and years of working with queer-bodied humans, I help you build trust with your body, embrace your desires, and live unapologetically in your pleasure.

This isn’t about perfection; it’s about learning to listen to your body, honour your boundaries, and say a full-bodied yes to your queerness and pussy.

You’re worthy of a life where you feel confident, turned on, and fully in love with who you are. And I’m here to walk that journey with you

packages

  • Elevate your retreat journey with this exclusive VIP offering, designed to take your transformation to the next level:

    • A private devotional bodywork session with Jordana (including but not limited to yoni massage) to awaken your body and connect deeply with your pleasure—before the retreat even begins.

    • Two 1:1 sessions with Jordana—one before the retreat to set powerful intentions and one after to fully integrate your transformation.

    • A luxury pleasure pack filled with curated essentials to expand your pleasure and bring the retreat magic home with you.

    All of this builds on your 4-day retreat experience, which already includes:

    • 2 exquisite meals a day, plus breakfast options and snacks to keep you nourished.

    • 3 nights of luxury accommodation in a stunning sanctuary designed to hold you in worthiness and devotion.

    • 4-week group container post-retreat to continue the journey and integrate alongside a loving community.

    Investment: $1,500 upgrade

  • Step into a weekend of connection, celebration, and transformation with everything you need to feel held and elevated:

    • A curated luxury pleasure pack filled with essentials to expand your pleasure and deepen your experience.

    • 4-day luxury retreat immersed in a breathtaking sanctuary designed for your growth and joy.

    • 2 delicious meals a day plus breakfast options and snacks to nourish your body and soul.

    • 3 nights of luxurious accommodation, where every detail celebrates your worthiness and comfort.

    • 4-week group container to continue the journey, integrate your breakthroughs, and stay connected to a loving community.

    Investment: $4,497 (Early Bird $3996 until Jan 15)
    Payment plans available—because your transformation is worth it.

    This is your moment to step into your magic, say yes to your pleasure, and claim the fullness of your worth

Your next step: Listen to your pussy.

If she’s already screaming ‘YESSS!’ and you’re ready to claim your spot, go ahead and sign up right now—this is your moment, and the magic is waiting for you.

Or, if you’re feeling a little on the edge and want to explore if this is the right fit, let’s connect. Book a 30-minute call with me, and we’ll dive into your desires, your fears, and everything in between. Whether you’re ready to leap or just leaning in, this call is here to hold space for your journey.

Because, babe, this is about so much more than a retreat—it’s about you stepping into your worth, your magic, and your deepest ‘yes.