queer retreats
come home to yourself.
create a devotional relationship with your body and thrive in your queerness.
who it's for
open to all genders, sexual orientations and relationship structure.
- came out later in life (or are still questioning) and feel like your whole sense of self has been turned inside out
- feel disconnected, numb, or confused around pleasure, desire, or what you actually want in intimacy
- notice a pattern of overriding your body’s yes and no, people-pleasing in intimacy, or performing desire rather than feeling it
- carry shame about being queer, even if you’re “out” and supported on the surface
- intellectually understand concepts like internalised homophobia or compulsory heterosexuality, but haven’t yet felt their integration in your body
- struggle to fully relax into queer intimacy, sex, or connection, even when you deeply want it
- feel behind, awkward, or unsure of yourself in queer spaces, dating, or relationships
- long to genuinely like who you are, not just accept yourself in theory
the work
what this retreat is built on.
slow, guided somatic practices designed to help you land back inside yourself. for a lot of us, being queer meant learning to leave the body to stay safe. this is the unlearning. sensation, breath, presence, without needing to explain any of it.
the details
what's included.
somatic & integration work
- daily facilitated somatic and embodiment practices designed to support nervous system safety, consent, and deeper relational presence
- relationship-focused integration work that gently unwinds habitual patterns, unspoken dynamics, and protective behaviors that block intimacy
- guided couple and group processes that support honest communication, embodied connection, and renewed trust with self and each other
- a 4-week post-retreat group integration container to help you integrate the work into real life, relationships, and intimacy at home
accommodation & environment
- luxury accommodation for the duration of the retreat.
- private room for each couple
- an intentionally intimate group size to ensure depth, care, and personalised facilitation
- a curated retreat environment designed for rest, regulation, and ease
food & nourishment
- three high-quality, healthy meals per day, prepared by a private chef
- thoughtfully designed menus to support energy, digestion, and overall wellbeing
what's not included
travel & personal expenses
- travel and personal expenses are not included.
upcoming retreat
queer retreat
dates and location to be announced.
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good to know.
do i need to be "out" to join?
not at all. this retreat welcomes queers at every stage. recently out, still questioning, long sure but never in a room like this before. wherever you are with your identity is exactly where you're meant to start.
what if i came out later in life?
you're especially welcome here. a lot of people in the room will be walking a similar path. coming out later means unlearning a whole life of one story to make room for the truth. this retreat is designed to hold that.
is this for a specific kind of queer?
no. open to all genders, sexual orientations, and relationship structures. gay, bi, pan, lesbian, dyke, fluid, questioning, unlabeled. partnered, single, complicated. trans, non-binary, cis. the room is intentionally mixed. that's part of the medicine.
do i need to be struggling to join?
not at all. this retreat isn't crisis work. it's for queers who love their life and want to go deeper. whether you're thriving and craving depth, or you've been feeling a little disconnected, both are welcome.
is this a sexuality-focused retreat?
there's sexuality content held within a structured, consent-first container. some sessions invite deeper embodied practice. at ezra somatics, you're always invited, never expected. you choose what feels correct for you, session by session. rest is a practice here too. some rituals invite deeper intimate practice. if you'd rather rest, integrate, or spend time in the spa, that's equally welcome. each day has themes and plenty of space to land.
is clothing optional?
for relevant sessions, yes. everything is invitational. you choose what feels true for you. choice and consent are the foundation of everything we do here.
what if i'm nervous about being in a group?
really common. most people arrive nervous. the container is small, intentionally, so no one gets lost in it. you're not asked to perform, share, or participate in anything you're not ready for. jordana holds the room closely, and there's always space to opt out and land.
what's the application process?
because the retreat is intimate and carefully held, every place is booked through a short conversation with jordana first. this isn't an interview. it's a space to connect, ask questions, and make sure the retreat is the right fit for you. if it's aligned on both sides, you'll move forward from there.
what's the cancellation policy?
a clear cancellation policy and payment plan options are shared on your application call.
the queer retreat guide.
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