individual session
75 minutes
$350 USD
a 75-minute reset for something that's taking up space right now. bring one thing you want to shift, and we'll work with it in the session so you can leave with a practice to use straight away.
work with me
you don't have to figure this out alone.
somatic sexology and attachment work for individuals and couples, through single sessions and longer-term support.
the approach
talking helps. some things live in the body.
somatic sexology brings attention to sensation, the nervous system, and how we experience intimacy in our bodies. attachment work helps us understand what comes up when we get close to someone and helps us feel secure with self and in love.
slow, steady, and led by you.
we make room to notice what's present, with choice and consent at the center.
one question. thirty minutes.
ask jordy.
30 minutes / $95 USD
a focused conversation about intimacy, relationships, or something you've been curious to explore.
individual work
space for you.
looking for ongoing support?
i want to feel more confident in my queerness.you’re excited to date women and explore queer intimacy, yay!
you’re excited to date women and explore queer intimacy, yay! i am so happy that you’re here! i get that feeling new at something is icky - in these sessions i help you feel safe and secure within your queerness and create a devotional relationship with your body. we’ll make room for the grief of what you didn’t get to explore sooner and help you trust what you want, feel more present in your body, and become a master communicator in the bedroom so that you feel wildly confident with women
i want to feel chosen without losing myself.maybe like me, your first queer break up had you questioning everything.
maybe like me, your first queer break up had you questioning everything because of you’ve never lost yourself in a relationship like that before. maybe you spent the whole connection oscillating between feeling incredible and also having severe anxiety (ps you’re not broken). in these sessions we’ll explore what happens in your body when closeness feels uncertain, reprogram core attachment wounds that are running the show, get clear on what you need, and practise setting boundaries. i want you to feel chosen without having to give up parts of yourself to keep someone close.
6 sessions / focused exploration
a shorter period of work around a particular intention.
12 sessions / more room to go deeper
give yourself more time to work through patterns as they come up, try new ways of responding, and see how those changes feel in your relationships and in your body.
couples work
space together.
couples session
90 minutes
$575 USD
dedicated time to explore intimacy, communication and connection together.
looking for ongoing support?
we want to feel close again.maybe you miss wanting each other, or one of you is discovering something about your sexuality.
maybe you miss wanting each other, or one of you is discovering something about your sexuality and you're both wondering what that means for the relationship.
we'll make space for what each of you wants and what feels hard to say out loud.
6 sessions / focused exploration
a shorter period to focus on an intention within your relationship.
12 sessions / more room to go deeper
more time to explore relational patterns and develop new ways of relating.
in-person work
somatic bodywork.
queer- and trans-affirming in-person somatic bodywork with me in nyc.
tantra-inspired somatic retreats
take the work somewhere new.
step away from everyday life. explore queer retreats, with space for embodiment, connection and community.
questions people ask
before you reach out.
how do i choose a starting point?
ask jordy is for one specific question. a full individual or couples session gives you time to work, and the 6-session and 12-session programs are for longer-term work.
how is ask jordy different from a full session?
ask jordy is 30 minutes and $95 USD, for one focused question. an individual session is 75 minutes and $350 USD. a couples session is 90 minutes and $575 USD. ask jordy is a paid consultation, separate from any complimentary discovery call.
what's the difference between individual and couples work?
individual work is for one person, focused on your own relationship with desire, intimacy and the body. couples work is attended together and looks at how you relate to each other.